Stupid freaking pictures!!
This is driving me nuts! Why won't the pictures show up?!!!?!? Ughhghghhhhh!!!!!
Enough whining! Back to funness. Ummmm.....I got nothin.
So it looks like Munky is going to get Larie kicked out of the apartment. It's really weird because it sounds like Larie agrees with everything that Munky tells her, but she just doesn't keep it in her head for more than 2 minutes and then she does what Patrick wants. I don't get it. I think she's gone bonkers. She knows that Patrick is not worth her time, she knows that it's not a "going to last forever" type of relationship, but she loves him. I don't know. Apparently Munky is usually the one who tells her how to handle situations, and she asks her what to do, but doesn't do what anyone, including Munky, tells her she should do, which is fine, it's up to her, but stop asking, no one is going to tell you what you want to hear, you know? I have no idea why I'm writing all this by the way. She keeps using the argument that I get to stay over all the time, so why can't Patrick, which is valid, but the bottom line is that Larie and Munky have made an agreement to live together, they need to agree on house rules, they've made a commitment to each other and it's between the two of them to make it work. If Larie doesn't want me there anymore, I'm gone, but she never says she doesn't want me there, she only sees the other side, if I'm there then Patrick should be there, but equally if Munky doesn't want Patrick there, he should be gone. Their relationships outside of the apartment mean nothing to the goings on inside the apartment. That is their place of residence, they make the rules, they need to live together. If one or the other doesn't feel comfortable in their own home, something needs to change. All right, I'm done with this now. That was fun.....I guess.
Enough whining! Back to funness. Ummmm.....I got nothin.
So it looks like Munky is going to get Larie kicked out of the apartment. It's really weird because it sounds like Larie agrees with everything that Munky tells her, but she just doesn't keep it in her head for more than 2 minutes and then she does what Patrick wants. I don't get it. I think she's gone bonkers. She knows that Patrick is not worth her time, she knows that it's not a "going to last forever" type of relationship, but she loves him. I don't know. Apparently Munky is usually the one who tells her how to handle situations, and she asks her what to do, but doesn't do what anyone, including Munky, tells her she should do, which is fine, it's up to her, but stop asking, no one is going to tell you what you want to hear, you know? I have no idea why I'm writing all this by the way. She keeps using the argument that I get to stay over all the time, so why can't Patrick, which is valid, but the bottom line is that Larie and Munky have made an agreement to live together, they need to agree on house rules, they've made a commitment to each other and it's between the two of them to make it work. If Larie doesn't want me there anymore, I'm gone, but she never says she doesn't want me there, she only sees the other side, if I'm there then Patrick should be there, but equally if Munky doesn't want Patrick there, he should be gone. Their relationships outside of the apartment mean nothing to the goings on inside the apartment. That is their place of residence, they make the rules, they need to live together. If one or the other doesn't feel comfortable in their own home, something needs to change. All right, I'm done with this now. That was fun.....I guess.
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The King, at April 06, 2005 1:27 PM
Yep, that is all true. I guess you didn't hear that he didn't leave huh? Yeah, he's living at Jerry's house for the time being, and supposedly he has a job, but he's always with Larie, so we don't know when he has time to go to a job, or how the hell he gets there. Yeah, I help clean up from time to time, I help pay for groceries, I go shopping with Munky for groceries, I buy her dinner/lunch, I'm not a big mooch and I've made a commitment to Munky. These are the reasons why I get to stay over all the time. Also, Larie says she likes having me there, so that's not even an argument for Patrick to be there. I guess he's stayed over almost everynight since the 25th also. He was supposed to be gone on the 23rd. Yeah, they tried the ground rules thing, but Larie says, "yeah, that's not going to work for me." I don't know if she understands how uncomfortable Munky is when Patrick is there, and she takes everything so personally. Munky has no problem with Larie, except the wacky decisions she's making, her only real problem is with Patrick and trying to force her to like him only makes it worse. Anyway, I guess Munky is really going ahead with the plans to send Larie packing. This butt has really put a huge strain on Larie and Munky's friendship. Munky feels she's lost her best friend, and I'm afraid she may be right.
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rowdy, at April 06, 2005 2:00 PM
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The King, at April 07, 2005 8:40 AM
Drama. Lot's of drama.
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rowdy, at April 07, 2005 11:54 AM
Sigh, this whole thing is rediculous. I don't even know how long he's going to stay at my place, it's strange and a bit uncomfortable. I mean, I offered because I hoped it would help relieve some of the stress of the situation, but it doesn't look like it helped at all.
I gave a couple days of hanging out with him and whatnot at my place, but decided early on that I couldn't stand it.
I don't think he's a bad human being, he's unlikely to kill any babies or punch my mom, and I understand being really close and liking someone that really only ends up making things worse for you, but at some point she needs to figure out what the fuck to do about him. I know she feels a responsibility, but...agh. I just don't even know if I can talk to her about it all. What the hell is the right thing to do here? Larie means a lot to me so I'm starting to feel cornered in how to act.
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doctor, at April 07, 2005 12:16 PM
Yeah, I hear ya. I want to talk to her too, but I just don't feel like my opinion does or even should matter to her. I was hoping it would help also. I don't know if Larie understands just how much Munky hates Patrick. It's actually kind of scary. I don't really quite understand it. I know why she would dislike him strongly, and I would say that I am not a fan of his, but I think the hate may stem from what has happenned between them. I'm doing what I can though to try and keep Munky calm and a little less "bitchy". How did you put it Jerry? Sometimes she can be a flaming bitch? Yeah, she's real vindictive. If she wants to do something that would just make things worse she usually asks me if she should and I just say, "it's up to you, but you know it's not going to help anything." I give up though. I know what I'd do, but I don't know how to help them do what would feel right to them. Hey Jerry, does Patrick really have a job now? Did I hear that right?
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rowdy, at April 07, 2005 12:47 PM
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The King, at April 08, 2005 9:37 AM
Yeah me too, but I'm starting to wonder if this would've happenned no matter what. I'm not sure, but I have a feeling that these two were destined to butt heads when one or both of them found the man they were going to stay with. They were so tightly knit together and I think I may have kind of split them apart a little. Not on purpose, I knew that it would be hard for anyone to get close, but then I kind of did, and now they're far apart. I don't know though, I can't really read Larie at all. Who knows.
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rowdy, at April 08, 2005 10:11 AM
I'm afraid you're probably right Rowdy. I do think it's been a long time coming for the two to come to a head, mostly because they've been so close and depended on each other and wouldn't let other people in their 'club'. But over the last year that's changed a lot, meeting new people and figuring out not everyone in the world is out to get them. Larie and I became close, you and Munky became close, patrick and Larie became close, and they don't need each other in the same way anymore. I think at least for now the friendship is probably over. Maybe later when they don't live with each other and x amount of time has passed they will be fine again, in fact this is what I suspect.
I've known people that at this age have to go through a seperation period and then once they figure out their lives again, reconnect and all is well. In either case, there is nothing more to be done. They are both on the lease, and I don't think Larie is leaving. Is it strange that we are rational males? Maybe that's an overstatement but hey.
If you ever want to grab a beer just you and me (or at least no girls) gimmie a ring Rowdy.
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doctor, at April 08, 2005 10:49 AM
Yeah, you are a wise man mister Jerry. You're a little loopy, but I like what you say sometimes. What do you say to Monday?
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rowdy, at April 08, 2005 12:42 PM
Reading this made me glad to live in Boston. Thank you all so much. I'm going to live in the woods when I get back. I hope you all understand that. You're free to visit me in the woods, but no more than one at a time. When there are only two people, no one is stuck in the middle.
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Max, at April 12, 2005 3:13 AM
That is a really good point. Can I set up a shanty a couple hundred yards past the five mile radius markers you'll be setting up around yours?
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rowdy, at April 12, 2005 10:08 AM
There has to be a demilitarized zone of at least a half mile in between our property lines. Not that I'm trying to keep you away, I just think I may need to keep everyone away. If you'd like to build something beyond the DMZ, feel free.
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Max, at April 14, 2005 11:34 PM
Of course, I figured that was a given. I just figured in case one of needed to borrow a cup of sugar we should be with in a quarter of a days walk from each other, seeing as how there will be no roads in or out of the properties.
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rowdy, at April 15, 2005 10:10 AM
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